You know your love languages…
Learn what shapes your desire and how to speak your erotic language — so you can stop guessing and start creating real sexual harmony.
What you'll discover
There are 10 Desire Types — each one highlighting the unique contexts that shape our sexual experiences: where mismatched expectations cause frustration, and where understanding brings everything back into flow.
Take the Desire Types Quiz to uncover what truly drives your desire — and learn how to create deeper, more effortless sexual compatibility.
What people are saying
"In the past, I really struggled to put my feelings about sex into words. I knew what I wanted, but whenever I tried to explain it, I'd just shut down. This course gave me the words to actually express what influences my desire for sex in a way that makes sense, not just to me, but to my partner too."
— Amina E.
"I was convinced my girlfriend's low interest in sex meant she wasn't in love with me anymore. So it's eased a lot of tension to learn that it's never that black and white, and there are so many little hidden things that can get in the way of someone feeling turned on."
— Thiago R.
"I never realised how my attachment style was showing up in the bedroom. The way I'd pull away or overthink everything suddenly made sense. That part of the course definitely hit home."
— Ashton C.
"I'm a mix of Sensual and Mirror types, and my boyfriend's more Erotic with a bit of Dependent. Learning about the different desire types helped us understand each other so much better and cleared up a lot of the misinterpretations we kept getting stuck on."
— Jade L.
"I thought that maybe this course was only going to be useful for couples, but I was wrong. It's really helped me understand myself in a way I hadn't before, and I feel so clear on what I actually desire sexually going into my next relationship."
— Nina K.
A different kind of framework
Many people don't live in a constant state of high desire. Some are naturally lower-desire, some move through seasons where sex isn't front of mind, and others only feel desire under the right emotional or relational conditions. Yet these people are still in relationships, still trying to understand themselves, and still wanting clarity — even when their libido isn't switched "on."
The Desire Types model was designed with this reality in mind. It recognises that libido is influenced by nervous system states, attachment patterns, emotional context, and the unique dynamics between two people. That's why some types reflect circumstantial, stress-induced, or context-dependent desire — not just the high-desire or always-on profiles people usually see.
Instead of treating low or shifting desire as a problem, the system treats it as meaningful information. It helps you understand why your desire changes, what conditions activate it, and how to navigate relationships when you and your partner aren't always aligned.
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Your primary Desire Type is…
How to read these results
Desire Types reveal the hidden psychological contexts that either awaken desire for sex or quietly shut it down. They help you understand what makes attraction feel effortless, what slowly kills it, and why some relationships feel electric while others feel flat — even when nothing is obviously wrong.
Here's what your type reveals about you:
What this isn't
A box to put yourself in. You'll see yourself in multiple types — that's completely normal and expected.
What this is
A powerful lens for understanding yourself and others. Your sexual starting point — not your final destination.
Most people are a mix of 2–3 types, and understanding how they work together is where real change begins. Your primary type explains a lot about how you're wired for intimacy — but your full picture is always richer than any single label.
Use this to get curious, communicate better, and finally understand why some relationships felt effortless while others felt impossible. The goal is to stop taking your partner's different needs personally — and start creating the connection you've both always wanted.
A note on your result
Below is your personal Desire Types wheel — think of it as your sexual fingerprint. It shows how all 10 types show up in your blueprint, not just your primary type.
Those other high-scoring types explain why you sometimes crave things that don't seem to match your primary. The low scores reveal why certain approaches have always felt completely wrong for you. Your wheel will also shift throughout your life — stress, relationships, and growth can temporarily amplify different types. Desire Types aren't fixed, so expect yours to evolve across different seasons and circumstances.
Your Desire Profile — All 10 Types
Next Step
Discover your sexual compatibility — enter both your types and get a deep AI-powered reading of your desire dynamic.
← Retake the quizSexual Compatibility Blueprint
Enter your top two Desire Types and your partner's to receive a psychologically grounded compatibility reading.
Select your primary type first, then your secondary type. Repeat for your partner.
Not sure of your type? Take the quiz first →
Reading your blueprint…
Analysing your desire dynamic
Post-Reading Coach
Your reading is above. Ask anything — about your types, your dynamic, what to do next.